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7 years 11 months ago #16512 by Johnno
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Do you live in brisvegas

as long as I wake up alive I'm happy
Because it could be worse

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7 years 11 months ago - 7 years 11 months ago #16514 by Retread
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Thanks mate, I really appreciate it.
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7 years 11 months ago - 7 years 11 months ago #16515 by Retread
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No mate, i am in NSW,
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7 years 11 months ago #16517 by Johnno
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How long have you been married ?
My wife at one stage had had enough and wanted to go but my/our phsych really helped us ,she is great .
A very good friend of ours is in a situation where his partner believes that he has a problem and went along to the psych with him and came got home believing he was still the problem.
So I have an idea what you are going through .
We haven't done anything except sleep in our marital bed for almost three years .
Chin up mate give her some thing to hit :)

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7 years 11 months ago #16518 by Johnno
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Retread

The thing with chronic pain is that it always has some effect on our partners , and often they become stressed due to feeling helpless as they watch their partners deal with the crap that chronic pain brings. Hopefully your wife can get her blood pressure under control

Keep the communication lines open as much as you can, and take the time to show her you appreciate her support if you can, as sometimes we get selfish as we are caught up in the pain of just trying to get through the days. And we are lucky to have someone to share the ups and downs that become a way of life for them as well as us.
A problem shared is a problem halved, and there have been quite a few times hubby has suggested something that i hadnt thought of. He was the one who told me to try for a parking permit as he realised that i was struggling to get to where i wanted/needed to go because of my poor
ThiS waS copied from Someone who iS watching you So take heed of thiS meSSage
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Johhno

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7 years 11 months ago #16526 by Peter
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Hey Johnno and Retread,

I thought you guys wanted the private message function so you could chat to each other instead of here on the forum.

Why don't you both go give it a try. we need someone to start using it, so that we can evaluate it. I would be interested in getting a report from you after you have used it for a while.


Peter

I wish the ring (this Chronic Pain) had never come to me. I wish none of this had happened. (Frodo Baggins)
So do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide, is what to do with the time that is given to us. (Gandalf the Grey)
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